Sexual fantasies are an essential part of a good sex life; and a good sex life is something everyone deserves.

Some women find the idea of sexual fantasies disturbing or even threatening, because they fear their boyfriend will fantasize about other women. Well, he probably will, but it’s a mistake so see as a threat. Fantasizing about people is normal in a long relationship, and there is nothing to stop you doing the same.

And he won’t like the idea any more than you do!