What men want – really want – is a puzzle to many women. A lady in the drawing room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom? Or are they looking for something more?

A cliché usually contains at least a grain of truth. But most men want a three rather than a two dimensional woman. They want someone who is a companion, who shares their values and who they can count on. A woman whose company they enjoy. A woman who stimulates their mind. A woman who makes them raise their game to become the best man they can be.

That’s a challenge, but it’s an enjoyable challenge; or it should be. Because in rising to it you will become the best woman you can be too.