The easiest way to win a man’s attention is to make him want you. That’s a given. But it’s what you make him want you for that makes the difference: the difference between whether or not he sees you as girlfriend material.

It you only make him want you for sex, you’ll never be more than a casual girl to him. If you want to be his girlfriend, you need to make him want you for yourself.

He needs to see you as unique, as the most amazing woman he’s ever met, someone who his makes his life better than it was when he was alone. That means enjoying your company and wanting to spend quality time with you. It means wanting to be with you whenever he can.

It means wanting you to be his girlfriend.